- Assure yourself of one fact: the bank does not want your house. You do not want the bank to take your house. (Banks already have an inventory of homes they’ve repossessed and will have to sell at a loss so they don’t want to add yours to the pile.) Therefore you now have a common goal: that you will pay your mortgage and keep your house. Just realizing this can often ease your anxiety. Call them and let them know what’s going on.
- Don’t bury your head in the sand. Find out where you stand financially. Open your mail. If that is too overwhelming take it to your favorite coffee shop or mall, somewhere you feel comfortable, and open it there. Your body cannot be in two states (calm and panicked) at once so if you are somewhat relaxed watching the game in your favorite sports bar or enjoying the weather at an outdoor cafe then you cannot be a ball of debilitating terror at the same time.
- Find help. In my community our county and city governments have teamed together with non-profits such as The United Way, HUD (a government agency), and housing organizations to help folks in this situation. Pick up that phone and call. The help is free and on target.
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- Stay away from companies promising to stop your foreclosure. If you sign on that dotted line you may be signing your house over to them and becoming a renter. Fees from these companies can also be exorbitant so keep your pennies and your pen in your pocket.
- Foreclosure options, or mitigation, can be found here: www.fha.gov/foreclosure/index.cfm.
- Decide on a soft place to fall. If you know you cannot keep your home stop paying into a sinking ship and start looking for a place to live that will make you happy, that you can afford, and that will work with your foreclosure history. Be honest with your future landlord and make certain you make all obligations in this new agreement.
Best of luck and let us know how you’re doing.
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